When the Wound Is No Longer Alone
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

When the Wound Is No Longer Alone

Today, a relatively ordinary situation touched something much older. As I stayed curious about my response, I was reminded that healing does not mean old fears never return. Perhaps it means discovering that when they do, they are no longer alone. 🌿💛

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Humility and Abundance Can Coexist
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

Humility and Abundance Can Coexist

What happens when we stop relating to life through preparation, scarcity or recovery and begin participating more fully in what is already here? A reflection on abundance, humility, receiving, and allowing ourselves to grow without shrinking from who we are becoming. 🌿💛

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Listening Before Deciding
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

Listening Before Deciding

What if clarity comes not from thinking harder, but from listening more deeply? A reflection on attention, intuition, opportunity, and recognising who we are becoming.

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When Reflection Finds a Home
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

When Reflection Finds a Home

Some reflections stay with us for days, quietly asking for our attention. We turn them over, sit with them and carry them through ordinary moments until something shifts. This is a reflection on writing, belonging, and the ways certain experiences seem to settle once they have found a home on the page. 🌿💛

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What Receives Our Attention Receives Our Energy
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

What Receives Our Attention Receives Our Energy

We often talk about people draining our energy. Yet increasingly, I find myself asking a different question: where is my attention going? Because wherever my attention goes, my energy seems to follow. A reflection on attention, emotional entanglement, presence, and the life that quietly unfolds while we are looking elsewhere. 🌿💛

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Sometimes a Cake Is Just a Cake
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

Sometimes a Cake Is Just a Cake

Today, while sitting in a café with a slice of gluten-free sponge cake and a cup of tea, I found myself wondering what it meant. Was I hungry, tired, seeking comfort or celebrating something? Then a thought arrived that made me smile: sometimes a cake is just a cake.

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My Body Is Sacred
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

My Body Is Sacred

Yesterday, a simple phrase stayed with me throughout the day: “My body is sacred.” What began as a mantra gradually unfolded into a reflection on embodiment, awareness, and the relationship we have with our bodies. Perhaps coming home to ourselves begins by coming home to the body through which we experience life.

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Soft Heart, Firm Boundaries
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

Soft Heart, Firm Boundaries

What happens when somebody else's frustration, criticism, fear or opinion continues living inside us long after the interaction has ended? This reflection explores emotional entanglement, the quiet draining of energy, and how healing may involve learning to return our attention to the life unfolding in front of us while keeping both a soft heart and firm boundaries.

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The Future That Calls Us
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Future That Calls Us

Some of the most important things in my life began long before I knew how they would happen. They arrived first as a feeling, a quiet sense of direction, a future that seemed to call from beyond the horizon. Looking back, I've realised that while I did my part, life often did some of the heavy lifting too.

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The Roles We Learn to Play and the Need for Authenticity
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Roles We Learn to Play and the Need for Authenticity

As children, many of us become what is needed in order to belong, stay safe or remain connected. Over time, these adaptations can become so familiar that we mistake them for who we are. This reflection explores the roles we learn to play, the identities we build around them, and the question that emerges when we begin to see them clearly: who am I beneath the roles? 🌿💛

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When the Body Asks, “Could Somebody Include Me in the Conversation?”
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

When the Body Asks, “Could Somebody Include Me in the Conversation?”

Whilst exhausted and looking for ways to make things better, I became aware of a quieter voice beneath the planning, problem-solving and productivity.

It seemed to be asking:

Could somebody include me in the conversation?

As I listened more closely, I found myself less focused on what needed doing and more present to what was already here. Sometimes the most important insight is not a new strategy, but a deeper awareness of what has been quietly asking for our attention all along. 🌿💛

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The Grace of Being Held
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Grace of Being Held

What if being held is not a sign of weakness, but an expression of our shared humanity? Inspired by the film Cartagena, this reflection explores vulnerability, trust, and the surprising ways people transform one another through relationship. What began as a story about care revealed something far deeper: helping rarely flows in one direction. A reflection on courage, connection, trust, and the grace of being held.

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The Guest in the House
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Guest in the House

Old feelings returning are not evidence that healing has failed. Sometimes they are evidence that another layer is ready to be met. In this reflection, I explore the space between victimhood and bypassing and the wisdom of welcoming our feelings without becoming defined by them.

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A Different Kind of Freedom
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

A Different Kind of Freedom

Whilst walking a quieter path through the rain, I found myself reflecting on the many freedoms that had shaped my life. Then I caught a glimpse of something deeper, a different kind of freedom that I am still writing my way towards. 🌿📖

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A Different Kind of Strength
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

A Different Kind of Strength

A walk through the park became a reflection on strength, presence, and the wisdom found in nature. What if true strength is not always found in striving, but in learning when to soften, listen, and trust?

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The Day I Named My Sons
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Day I Named My Sons

A day of celebration unexpectedly became a day of remembrance. A reflection on grief, belonging, motherhood, and the healing that can emerge when we finally allow ourselves to love what has been lost.

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A Different Kind of Wealth
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

A Different Kind of Wealth

A chance encounter with comparison became an invitation to explore a deeper question: what does it really mean to be wealthy?

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The Mind Calculates, The Body Remembers
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

The Mind Calculates, The Body Remembers

A small moment of scarcity revealed an old survival pattern. A reflection on safety, healing, and learning to recognise the difference between the past and the present.


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Girl From Mogadishu (2019) Movie
Dr Mali Taheri Dr Mali Taheri

Girl From Mogadishu (2019) Movie

A powerful story prompted reflections on vulnerability, resilience, compassion, and the ways our own experiences shape how we witness the suffering of others.

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